Susan has taken on a heavy burden. After her husband Mike had a stroke, he was referred to a long-term care facility. At Mike's insistence, however, the referral was declined and Susan brought Mike home and became his primary caretaker. Their grown son, Robert, initially moved in with his parents to be his father's ‘human crane'. He is still living with them and is still off work. Money is tight. The house is crowded. Just recently, Robert suffered a mild heart attack, and now also needs care.
Susan finds it very difficult to find the time to keep herself healthy. There are days she feels stressed and depressed. A social worker from the Community Care Access Centre (CCAC) suggested a couple days of respite care for Mike, but the earliest opening is in three months. Right now, whenever Mike gets support from someone other than Susan, she finds herself ‘running a marathon' around Zehrs. Her only time out is to buy groceries or pick up medications.
Susan finds she is constantly called upon. She has no time to go for walks and even if she did, she finds walking difficult. After a bout of pneumonia about four years ago, Susan has had shortness of breath on exertion.
Susan feels she has changed. Before becoming the main caretaker for her husband she never paid attention to medical issues, and mostly followed her doctor's advice. Now she questions everything. Susan has become a firm advocate for her husband. She does get frustrated at times but has developed strategies to find answers to her questions or to get action for Mike. Initially she did research on the Internet, but lately hasn't been able to find the time.
In Susan's community there is no community support group for caregivers. Because of confidentiality, the names of other families in similar situations cannot be shared. Respite beds are scarce. Susan longs for a day to herself. The hardest challenge for her is not having freedom. She cannot come and go as she used to, and finds that if she gets overtired then ‘everything becomes monumental'.
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